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2011年8月4日星期四

Emotional Abuse? need help?

-I have been the victim of emotional abuse,

I have had to leave my home due to emtional blackmail,

She turned everyone against me,

Lied and hit me many times,

Said many inappropriate things to me,

I found myself asking her everyday, do u love me.

She has played sever mind games with me.

Put me in the position where i was attacked with an iron bar and put into hospital.

Yet i still love her

We arnt together now, less than 2 weeks she is being nasty to me, setting nasty fb statuses flaunting she is single.

Adding all her ex boyfriends.

Acting like the last three years we have been together have been a prison for her. The thought of her having sex with someone else is making me feel sick, and i know we arnt together, but i dont know how to switch it off. How do i let go, man 2 man. I have never been in love with anyone in my life so much, and i have been destroyed. I need to forget.Look I been thru a similar situation. And it felt horrible to realize the person I loved for four years never loved me back. U deserve better than her she must of gone thru some emotional pain in her past and taking it out on you. The point is you don't need a toxic person in your life. Let her add her ex boyfriends that just prove to you that shes a no good skank and that what shes doing to you shes obviously enjoying. Put yourself first and love yourself I assure u you'll find the happiness you need. And the women of your dreamsI would move on,you sound like a good guy .who deserves a lot better it'll be hard but if you act like you don't care shell be crawling back to you.if you'd even want her back.
i thing you should go out and look for a girl that alway make you feel better and try going out with friends they always cheer you up and bang a bunch off girls real talk go have fun
Been there, done that. Survived with the help of a good psychologist and prescriptions. GET HELP!
Here's a list of what you could do:

Hang with mates, go to a bar with them. It helps.

See a counsellour to sort yourself out. emotional abuse is nothing light and needs to be dealt with.

Delete her, block her and get rid of anything with her name on it. The last thing you need is the chance to contact that btch. Get her OUT of your life.

Get rid of things that remind you of her.

Don't sit at home getting upset or you'll get depressed. Force yourself out with mates to clubs or whatever. Talk to your exes.

Try foccussing on school/career/university/college to distract yourself from her.

She knows she is hurting you and she is LOVING it. The best you could do is show you don't care what she does, she has hurt you and you don't want that hurt in your life anymore. Try your hardest to move on. I know thinking of other girls is a tough thing to do, and you will often think of your ex, but try and forget her. Open yourself up for new love with someone who isn't mentally screwed in the head.



Goodluck man, burn the witch aye!

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